Theos-Talk Archives (October 1997 Message tl00198)

In message <01bcd592$6bc75ba0$50845ad1@libidium>, libidia
<libidium@globalserve.net> writes
>Because I have been hurt myself by other people's actions and words, and
>although I know that being "harmed" is within myself and not their "doing",
>I am trying hard to "see" other people's states and understand my own, so
>that what I do and say, hopefully, is positive for all.  I'm a real novice
>at this bit, yet.

Not always true, IMHO.  If other people's actions harm us and their
"doing" takes account of what they perceive of our individual "within"
then the harm they do may well be *intentional.*  There are some really
nasty people out there who can do this.

Take care ....

Alan